Ok player, so you got game and you know how to pick up a sexy chick. What are your relationship skills like?
A chick wants to see that you care about her! She wants to see you laugh when she cracks a joke, she wants you to text her at 3am in the morning when you miss her like crazy, and she wants you to make special surprise plans for her birthday. There's a whole spectrum of investment strategies that goes into getting a hot chick. There's no right answer, but realize what option you go for will affect which sort of relationship you might have with her. At the end of the day, its up to wether she wants to invest in you and keep you! The road runs both ways!
Here are 10 ways to lose a sexy girl! They where deal breakers for me and I thought you might want to see how to not just get a sexy chick but keep one!!!
1.Tell her your not looking for a long term relationship
Any girl who says she isn’t looking for a long term relationship either carries emotional baggage, sleeps around too much (that’s not good), or is straight out lying, and hoping that by telling you that she’ll work her way into your heart and get you to change your mind…
2. Tell her you hate her friends
When the feminine council comes together, you want to be on their good side, or they’ll drag your name to hell and back. Buy them cookies for their little get togethers (don’t bake any,and come chat with them, you don’t want them to think you’re gay).
3. Ask Her To Buy You Stuff
Society dictates that a guy is supposed to take care of the girl. Some girls are independent and don’t mind spending money on a guy they really like, but no girl is going to sit down and let a guy live free off her like a leech or parasite unless she is mentally unstable, or unless he is her husband and used to work but is unable to do so because of illness.
4. Cheat On Her
Relationships are based on trust, and if you cheat that is considered breaking her trust!
If you can’t stay away from other women while you’re just her boyfriend, she’ll never trust you with the responsibility of being a husband & father! If you can’t be that, then don’t be anything at all. Even a young girl wants her girlfriends to be faithful!
5. Lie To Her
Simple, day to day stuff such as where the boys hung out last Friday, why don’t you and your dad speak any more, and embarrassing as it is, the size your sexual organ. You don’t lie about such things, especially the last one, chicks can tell eventually, and will eventually find out!!! They have ways(hint, hint) So if you want to lose her, lie!
6. Nag Her For Sex
It’s a welcome change that may build a relationship if the girl feels like you’re there for more than sex, which she will feel if you nag her all the time, and as a result of this nagging, she will run away!! A hearing ear, red rose, and patience goes along way!!
7. Talk Gossip About Her
Don’t, and I repeat don’t, go around boasting about her to your friends, whether it’s good or bad. The way guys talk about girls can be rather graphic and disgusting, you may not see anything wrong with it, but how would you feel if you and your friends got together to chat about your girlfriends, and your sister happens to be one of your friend’s girl? Girls are thought to gossip… it just makes you look like a spiteful girl yourself. “He who keepeth his mouth keepeth his life” and his girl.
8. Neglect Her
Sexy Girls love attention!. Some like myself don’t require you to be clingy, but a casual phone call to let them know that you care, or my favorite, a text late in the night when they’re asleep so that I wake up, read it, and smile first thing in the morning when I think of you, will show chicks your commitment.
9. Make Promises you do not intend to keep
If you want to lose her, make her put her all into the relationship, and then don’t give anything back! One of my first relationships put a ring on my finger and never sealed the deal, us girls will only wait around so long….
10. Wear Her Clothes
Don’t attempt this, she will catch you in the act one day and it will be weird and awkward. She will discuss it with her girlfriends and they will decide that she should leave you,because you are GAY (this may or may not be true. If you do this, consider the possibility that you might be, but haven’t come out of the “closet” as yet).
So next time you're chilling with your girl in the crisp glow of a Summer morning, don't worry about being non-needy, just look her in the eye and tell her you love being with her!!